Big Sis

[dancer89]

Ok, so my sorority just had big sis revelation a couple of weeks ago, and I didn't get the girl who I wanted, which is no big deal because I also like the girl who I was assigned to. the only problem is, i am really close to the girl who i did want, and her little knows that. i became friends with the girl i wanted to by my big before her little even joined the sorority (she did "rush after rush.") the problem is, can i still remain close to this girl, or will things have to change because she has a little sis now? her little really likes me and wants to be good friends with me (she doesn't have many friends), but at the same time she kind of holds it over my head that she was assigned to this girl and i wasn't. can anyone relate/give me some advice?