Oh yeah.. I've learned that just because someone is in the NPHC, doesn't mean they'll always look out for you.
I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but different regions have different politics and fraternal dynamics. IE, the Deltas on my Campus (Lambda Iota) are way different from the Deltas I've met from NYC ("Rho"... for all intents and purposes..).
On thing my LB told me was that a real NUPE will always look out any way he can, and a real NUPE won't take advantage of another bro's hospitality.
And also, I never belittle my bros in public. We may cut ass on each other and have our chapter disputes, but fighting/bickering in public is a bad look.
__________________
Kappas don't have Relationships
They Have Long standing friendships
With intimate implications
But no romantic overtones
|