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Old 09-12-2006, 10:42 AM
Senusret I Senusret I is offline
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Band Director Charged with Raping Fraternity Aspirant



The student told the band director that he planned to pledge for a fraternity next year, Cpl. Oldham said, and Mr. Bonds allegedly offered to "teach him what he needs to know about pledging."

Full story here: http://www.newszap.com/articles/2006...unty/dsn05.txt

Though it isn't stated in the article, the band director was initiated into Kappa Alpha Psi in Fall 2005 through the Northpoint Alumni Chapter in Mississippi.
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Old 09-12-2006, 10:44 AM
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The student told the band director that he planned to pledge for a fraternity next year, Cpl. Oldham said, and Mr. Bonds allegedly offered to "teach him what he needs to know about pledging."

Full story here: http://www.newszap.com/articles/2006...unty/dsn05.txt

Though it isn't stated in the article, the band director was initiated into Kappa Alpha Psi in Fall 2005 through the Northpoint Alumni Chapter in Mississippi.

Sicko! I got an article this morning sans a picture nor Greek affiliation of the perpetrator.
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Old 09-12-2006, 11:03 AM
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The student told the band director that he planned to pledge for a fraternity next year, Cpl. Oldham said, and Mr. Bonds allegedly offered to "teach him what he needs to know about pledging."

Full story here: http://www.newszap.com/articles/2006...unty/dsn05.txt

Though it isn't stated in the article, the band director was initiated into Kappa Alpha Psi in Fall 2005 through the Northpoint Alumni Chapter in Mississippi.
Sick, very sick man. And my heart goes out the the student...
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Old 09-12-2006, 11:23 AM
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sending prayers up for all involved in this mess, someone is very SICK (either the BD if he did it, or the student if he made it up). i wasn't there so i don't know.

my heart goes out to the band and students at DSU who will have to worth through the aftermath of these allegations.
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Old 09-12-2006, 12:08 PM
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Oh my gosh people are deranged that is disgusting...and the picture of him makes it hundred times worse.
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Old 09-12-2006, 01:35 PM
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Maaaaaaaaaaan, this story is SKETCHY as he!!. Things really don't add up. Who "goes in and out of consciousness" off of Hypnotic? How do you walk into another man's room and allow sh!t like that to take place? How do you wake up butt naked and NOT confront him? If he was really that gone off of some damn HYPNOTIC, then why does he recall EVERYTHING. Come on now. There's alot more to this story. If anything DID happen, my assumption is that it was consensual.
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Old 09-12-2006, 01:40 PM
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Maaaaaaaaaaan, this story is SKETCHY as he!!. Things really don't add up. Who "goes in and out of consciousness" off of Hypnotic? How do you walk into another man's room and allow sh!t like that to take place? How do you wake up butt naked and NOT confront him? If he was really that gone off of some damn HYPNOTIC, then why does he recall EVERYTHING. Come on now. There's alot more to this story. If anything DID happen, my assumption is that it was consensual.
If it was consensual, why would the victim call the police?
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Old 09-12-2006, 01:53 PM
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Maaaaaaaaaaan, this story is SKETCHY as he!!. Things really don't add up. Who "goes in and out of consciousness" off of Hypnotic? How do you walk into another man's room and allow sh!t like that to take place? How do you wake up butt naked and NOT confront him? If he was really that gone off of some damn HYPNOTIC, then why does he recall EVERYTHING. Come on now. There's alot more to this story. If anything DID happen, my assumption is that it was consensual.
While I agree with part of your statement, I do know of a simular situation here which ended up in a murder.

Victim did go to a hotel room with killer thinking that they were going to have a talk.
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Old 09-12-2006, 01:58 PM
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Maaaaaaaaaaan, this story is SKETCHY as he!!. Things really don't add up. Who "goes in and out of consciousness" off of Hypnotic? How do you walk into another man's room and allow sh!t like that to take place? How do you wake up butt naked and NOT confront him? If he was really that gone off of some damn HYPNOTIC, then why does he recall EVERYTHING. Come on now. There's alot more to this story. If anything DID happen, my assumption is that it was consensual.
It's called being slipped a mickey, roofie, etc. In other words, I think the victim was drugged. And with those drugs, you can go in and out of consciousness. He would be able to remember that.

I read this story last night. Prayers go out to everyone involved.

AP story: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060912/...rector_accused

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Old 09-12-2006, 03:23 PM
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If it was consensual, why would the victim call the police?

Because he felt ashamed. He might be one of those "I had sex with a guy but I'm not gay" types.

On the other hand, he might have been slipped a mickey and it could have been rape. I'm not going to make assumptions and accusations either way, just like I wouldn't if a woman had been the one pressing charges.
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Old 09-13-2006, 01:20 AM
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True, he could have been slipped some kind of date rape drug, but things still don't add up to me. I've got some frat up at DSU. I'll ask one them about the suspect.
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:28 AM
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Bruh, dude is a "victim" or an "accuser"...
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:45 AM
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most likely a hate crime.
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Old 09-13-2006, 02:40 PM
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Oh, I was referring to the Bonds when I said suspect.
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Old 09-13-2006, 04:10 PM
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Oh, o.k. i misunderstood.
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