Yall, I need some support

ShamikaT · #1 06-16-2005, 09:39 AM

Please reassure my decision, so I can print this out and show this to my sorors,
Friends, and my family.

I just recently crossed in another BGLO, but Zeta is in my heart, has been in my
heart, and always will be in my heart. I will do whatever it takes. Even if I have
to officially change my name. People have the nerve to act all funky and stuff.
My sorors has abandoned me. I’m disappointed and Shocked that My granny
(who is a Zeta) is against my decision the most.

Thank you so much.

Intense1920 · #2 06-16-2005, 09:53 AM

There is nothing that you can do. You made your decision and you have to live with it. If Zeta was in your heart all along why didn't you pursue her? This is why I tell people all the time be sure about your decision because there is no going back. *smh*

The Truth · #3 06-16-2005, 10:03 AM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
Please reassure my decision, so I can print this out and show this to my sorors,
Friends, and my family.

I just recently crossed in another BGLO, but Zeta is in my heart, has been in my
heart, and always will be in my heart. I will do whatever it takes. Even if I have
to officially change my name. People have the nerve to act all funky and stuff.
My sorors has abandoned me. I’m disappointed and Shocked that My granny
(who is a Zeta) is against my decision the most.

Thank you so much.

Ms. ShamikaT,

I have seen that many people have read this and have not responded, but I wanted to say something.

You made the adult decision to become a member of an organization, knowing that you had a greater interest in another. So accept the consequences that have came as a result. You can't expect the members of your organization, who may have a love for yall's organization, to understand your "love" for another. The foundation of yall's bond is the organization, and you must have made it clear to them that you wish you had pursued another.

Accept responsibility of your actions and realize the effect it is having on you and those around. Only a woman can make the decision to commit herself to something for life, and you have done that. So now all you can do is deal with it as a woman. You live and you learn.

The next time you have a strong desire to do something, you will know the repercussions of "settling for less". Maybe this will give you more motivation to remain focused on what you really want.

ShamikaT · #4 06-16-2005, 10:07 AM

I got sidetracked by my current organization because most of the sorors were attractive. Looking back, it was a stupid reason why I chose this organization. I matured a lot within the last few months. Therefore, I believe that I deserve forgiveness and support for my change of mind.

treblk · #5 06-16-2005, 10:09 AM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
I got sidetracked by my current organization because most of the sorors were attractive. Looking back, it was a stupid reason why I chose this organization. I matured a lot within the last few months. Therefore, I believe that I deserve forgiveness and support for my change of mind.

you can not be serious

WOW

You deserve to be a MATURE WOMEN and take care of your Responsibility!

Intense1920 · #6 06-16-2005, 10:13 AM

You are where you are and since you have matured as you say it's time to make the best of your situation.

Pretty Kitty · #7 06-16-2005, 10:13 AM

This can't be serious....
Is it: play a joke on GC day?
I am waiting for a post that says "SIKE" any minute now....

CrimsonTide4 · #8 06-16-2005, 10:17 AM

SIKE

Shamika,

Oh well. You can always support Zeta events and endeavors but as an XYZ, lol.

ShamikaT · #9 06-16-2005, 10:24 AM

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Originally posted by treblk
you can not be serious
WOW

You deserve to be a MATURE WOMEN and take care of your Responsibility!

What are you confused about? I am very serious. These kind of things happen all the time. So, don't act like I'm unsual.

The Truth · #10 06-16-2005, 10:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ShamikaT
I got sidetracked by my current organization because most of the sorors were attractive. Looking back, it was a stupid reason why I chose this organization. I matured a lot within the last few months. Therefore, I believe that I deserve forgiveness and support for my change of mind.

'Hole Up Screw!

Nobody and I repeat nobody owes you anything! What do you mean you "deserve forgiveness and support". Yea anybody can forgive you, because Jesus forgives but that does not change any of the consequences you will have to endure.

Forgiveness does not mean you are not going to be held accountable.

How can you expect anyone to "support" your change of mind and you could not even "support" yourself.

I think you need to really take a minute, sit back, and THINK about what you did, how you did it, and who you did with. Right now you are too emotional and obviously not thinking straight, since you think your actions don't deserve a reaction. All this could have been avoided had you been proactive in your pursuit of the organization that you had "in your heart".

PrettyZeta4 · #11 06-16-2005, 10:26 AM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
I got sidetracked by my current organization because most of the sorors were attractive. Looking back, it was a stupid reason why I chose this organization. I matured a lot within the last few months. Therefore, I believe that I deserve forgiveness and support for my change of mind.

okay you are forgiven....what do you think is going to happen now? you can't possibly think you can become a Zeta now.....

i'm with the person who said this must be a joke.....okay you got us, i'm laughing, LOL

TheEpitome1920 · #12 06-16-2005, 10:44 AM

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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
SIKE

Shamika,

Oh well. You can always support Zeta events and endeavors but as an XYZ, lol.

RIGHT!

NEXT!

treblk · #13 06-16-2005, 10:51 AM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
What are you confused about? I am very serious. These kind of things happen all the time. So, don't act like I'm unsual.

NO, these kinds of thingd DO NO HAPPEN ALL THE TIME and whoever lead you to believe that lead you WRONG! Stop playing! You wanted one org, but settled for another org because their members were attractive

what kinda bullisht are you on

ShamikaT · #14 06-16-2005, 10:53 AM

Be happy that I'm now a Christian. I was not expecting such stankness. It looks like I'm not going to get any support. I must leave or I will say something unchristianlike.

treblk · #15 06-16-2005, 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
Be happy that I'm now a Christian. I was not expecting such stankness. It looks like I'm not going to get any support. I must leave or I will say something unchristianlike.

BLUPIZZAZZ is that you