I have been dealing with this young man ever sense I was 11. Through high school we got closer and now we are in college we are extremely close. I want a relationship with him but he hides that fact that he is scared of getting hurt. Its like he has a wall up against me. like I am some type of antibodie. Yesterday I was going over his house and when I got almost to his house my friend a boy name cogie call me and I went over their while the young man waited for me on the steps. When I got done talking to cogie for a minute I went over to the young man to give him a hug and he dissed me and said I was rude for coming to see him then go over to another guy. Well at first I did not look at it like that and If he would have did it to me I would have been mad because we are to close. I apologized and then he said I am easily persuaded and that I act like I don't have brains at times. I said what? He said you don't have brains sometimes. I got up and told him you only have one time to tell me that and I left. As soon as I hit the corner All my tears fell down and I cried and went to sleep. I was really hurt because I am extremely smart not just in books but common sense. I want to call him so bad but he was wrong for what he said and I say if he wants me then he will call no need to chase. What do you think?