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12-13-2003, 02:37 PM
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how long do you wait?
couldn't find a thread like this anywhere...
after starting a new relationship that you would really like to see last and grow into something good, how long do you wait before you have sex? not that there's a magical number of months or dates, but what is a good amount of time?
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12-13-2003, 02:39 PM
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Its not good to make the boy wait long . . get it out of the way as soon as possible! 
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12-13-2003, 02:51 PM
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I like to wait a few months. This is because I like to really get to know the person first.........and I dont think that can be done after the first date, second date, or even after the tenth date.......takes time. I've found that those relationships where I wait longer usually last longer.
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12-13-2003, 05:32 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by James
Its not good to make the boy wait long . . get it out of the way as soon as possible!
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Never has such a profundity been so clearly articulated!
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12-13-2003, 05:37 PM
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If you don't know for certain how he'd react if you told him that you're "late" - it's too soon!
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12-13-2003, 07:25 PM
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Damn girl . . . you are a buzzkill . . .
I bet that you are beautiful, clever, accomplished, and gentile in bearing, but there is something called sex for pleasure, and I am told on the highest authority . . . that it Feels Really Good.
So go with the feeling. 
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Originally posted by honeychile
If you don't know for certain how he'd react if you told him that you're "late" - it's too soon!
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12-13-2003, 08:10 PM
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Heh...I waitied 2 weeks with TKE209..and that's with losing the great V also...but then again we've been together for over 2 years...
If we would ever break up I would wait at least 3 months.
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12-14-2003, 05:17 AM
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I think it's a good idea if wait until you know for sure they're not only in it for the pootang....
Enough said..
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12-14-2003, 09:20 AM
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I was friends with Mr. OTW for a few months before we actually started dating. When we first started dating, I knew that he was special because my first instinct was NOT to rip off all his clothes and boink.
Dates and dates and weeks and weeks later, we still haven't did the deed. It's better off this way, for now, anyway.
There's still some baggage to be dealt with on both fronts, so I really can't put a timeline on how long it'll be.
But when it does happen, bet that you'll be reading it in the diaries. Mwahahaha.
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12-14-2003, 12:49 PM
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OTW, you are NOT encouraging the rest of us who are hoping there's a great guy out there who is also up for a clothes-ripping boink.
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12-14-2003, 12:59 PM
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If I have a silly little crush on a guy, there's no waiting. Here and now.
If I actually like someone, I won't do it. I know it's a little weird, but when I'm with a guy that I like, I don't want to do anything.
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12-15-2003, 12:04 AM
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Quote:
Originally posted by James
Damn girl . . . you are a buzzkill . . .
I bet that you are beautiful, clever, accomplished, and gentile in bearing, but there is something called sex for pleasure, and I am told on the highest authority . . . that it Feels Really Good.
So go with the feeling.
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I'm well aware that it Feels Really Good!
But so does drinking a lot of amaretto sours - until the next morning....
I'm just not into the "genital handshake" thing.
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12-15-2003, 12:44 AM
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Didn't wait.
Four years later, I don't regret it AT ALL!
I'm not a Rules girl!
Last edited by Munchkin03; 12-26-2003 at 11:48 PM.
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12-15-2003, 12:47 AM
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12-15-2003, 12:54 AM
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There's a very easy, surefire way to figure this one out. First, multiply the number of dates you've been on by the Magic Age At Which People Should Get Married, and divide that by the number of licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop. Then, add the guy's shoe size, subtract the number of Sundays in the year 1980, and then get the square root of the number you just figured.
In other words, I don't think it really matters. Everybody's different.
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