K, I have a situation w/ my boyfriend that is bothering me huge and I would love some advice on it!
My boyfriend of almost a year has these two girls that are his best friends. He's constantly over at their place which really shouldn't be a problem because I trust him ENTIRELY but here's the catch...he's slept w/ both of them (one before he even knew me and then the other while we were broken up for a few months).
Now I would NEVER be one of those girlfriends who asked him to stop hanging out w/ his female friends b/c that's just ridiculous and I would never tolerate anyone giving me that ultimatum. And the bottom line is I trust him.
The thing is that on New Years he fell asleep at their place and slept in one of the girls' bed (he says she wasn't in there w/ him) and was there til 1:00am (jan 2) the next morning. I think that's entirely unacceptable b/c there are just some things you dont' do when you have a significant other and that's one of them, especially since he's been intimate with both of them before (seperate occasions
) To me its a respect issue. (I went to a frat formal and he FLIPPED out so I don't see how I should be cool w/ him sleeping in another girl's bed)
Anyway despite how much I trust him I just can't help the fact that this bothers me. Anyone w/ advice plz help! other than these two broads our relationship is perfect and I don't want to throw that away! Advice plz! Thanks and sorry for the novel!
Dealing with boyfriends and their female friends
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