help!
We have a sister in our chapter who is also a member of DZ. She's a great girl...but one problem. She always tries to run SAI like we are DZ. And although both groups have similarities, we have totally different purposes! She tries to make us into a social sorority, which we *aren't*. Not to say there's anything wrong with them, because there isn't...but SAI is a *music* fraternity. We do social things too of course...but you get what I'm saying.
She always wants to be really selective when voting who to extend bids to. The thing is, we don't have a quota, and since we're a small chapter the rest of us want as many new members as possible!
I feel like she is treating us like we are DZ, and we're a little frustrated. Things that work well for DZ don't necessarily work for us, and vice versa. See what I'm saying? Any advice??
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