Damng JWOW, you are in the dirty funk!!!!
i SOMETIMES DONT BLAME YOU!
It is heart breaking to read some of the things that do on at Greek Houses!
We as Alums sometimes need to police what the Active Chapters are doing! If we dont, then the Schools and Internationals will. This more times than not lead to disaster for the Chapters!
They still need a figure to look to who is older!
I read on one of the things I get is that a SPE Chapter were the first Greek Org on the Campus to have a Faucilty Advisor.
We have always strived to havce a Facualty Advisor who we Initiate if he shows he wants to work with us and sticks with it!
We have a Great one now!
He sent me an e-m after we had our mentoring session last weekend with the Chapter.
"It was a pleasure being and discussing many things with you. I find it rather funny that there was # 1 and # 599 working together and we are about the same age"
"I also find it rather odd that now I call my son with a lower # now also my Brother!"
While most Greek Orgs with Houses do not have House Mothers anymore, there is no restraint on the young people who are joing our Orgs.
There must be a concerted effort by Alums to work with the Chaptere, getting Faucalty Advisor who can help run some interference for the Chapters!
We are not policing them but advising them for their own good!
My guys know that there are many Alums that are available to them at anytime for help!
Brother Killingsworth # 599 is available at all times and does it out of a labor of love even tho he is the new kid on the block so to speak!!!!!
Well I said alot and dont know if it helped?
Do what you can and you will find that you will once again feel the enjoyment!
DAlum and Hoosier are not doomsayers, they are just pointing out the facts! Sometimes it dont look good! But there are many other Chapters out there who do good but dont get recognition only for the bad done, not the good!