I got this from an interview R. Kelly had on MTV:
"That has always been a question in my mind, but I'm not going to sit and lie. I'm not going to I.D. people," Kelly said. "Most of the time when I meet women, we're in clubs, and in clubs they're supposed to be 21 and over to get in ... I just like going to clubs and I like partying, so I go to the party and there's, of course, all kinds of women there and they're after you, and sometimes I'm after them too."
I thought R. Kelly was married?????

Why haven't we heard from her?