hey techadpi, sorry i'm a slacker and didn't reply sooner :blush:
my diamond got me some cool stuff... for diamond days i got a different size basket each day from small to large, that matched one another and there were different things in them everyday. i got a notepad, a big mug with my name on it, journal, a little round glass floating candle thing, a pretty tealite lamp, and this hanging tealite holder thingy... they were cool cause they weren't your traditional items but were all either in the sorority colors or violet oriented, or had been decorated with blue n white ribbons, etc. i got a "family tree" with our diamond chain painted on this decorative little fence thing (check out walmart's craft section) (the fam. tree comes from the oldest member of your diamond chain, who happened to be my diamond cause my grand diamond wasn't there that semester), a pin box that ali painted with my name and initiation date, etc, that was probly the best thing she gave me cause it was tin and has a butterfly on it that was connected with this wire (hard to explain but really cool) and i knew that she had really put thought into it cause i LOVE butterflies and it was something very unusual that you don't just find everyday. she also made me a scrapbook, and some different cups and glasses, picture frames, candles, and stuff to decorate with like paint, etc for myself. i also got a set of "family" letters that matched hers...
i know stuff is slipping my mind, sorry i'm just trying for the general gist
i got my diamond:
a stuffed lion, a potted violet, a silk violet in a pot, picture frames, family letters, a couple candles, glasses/cups, a mug, a vase, a notepad, a pressed violet bookmark, a scrapbook, a pin box, some bath stuff i think, a basket, decals, and i know there was more but i forget since i dont' have it here

sorry!
wooden letters are great too, i got these from ali during senior giveaway, and i know one of the other sororities give them as gifts... i think i'm gonna institute that for us since i'm nmc and the mevp and i choose pride gifts
good luck, have fun and be crafty this summer, then when you get your diamond you can leave a couple things to personalize to her taste, what ali made me with butterflies, and the pin box were so awesome! : D