No bid

[calgirl15]

So I go to a CSU (California State University) and it is relatively small in size, as it its Greek life ( 3 sororities and 3 fraternities) and I rushed the same sorority twice.

The first time, I did not receive a bid because I did not get to know the girls as well as I could have.

The second time I rushed, I knew every single girl, I connected with them and they all were super friendly to me, they all knew me and I felt really good and better than I had done in the past.

I did not receive a bid and they send out an email saying that I either did not meet academic requirements (they require a 2.5 and I have a 3.2) and the other reason is they feel like they did not get to know me.

And now they act like nothing has changed between us and act like my best friend.

I'm not rushing again because I don't want to seem desperate. My question is, how do I get over it and move on from it?