Take it personally or no?

[Yoquierotacobel]

If an active sorority woman invites you(pnm) to dinner on campus(no rules being broken), is it a sign that the pnm stood out or is it something the sorority women will do to all pnms?

no, the sorority woman did not pay, promise a bid, talk badly about any sorority or convince the pnm that they're the 'way to go."
Just getting to know each other

I edited the Q so I wouldn't give too much details away. I'm sorry for those who may have viewed my original post.