think about why a girl would actually want to join a sorority and STAY a sorority woman for the next 40 or 50 years. The reasons you're using now aren't right so you need to re-think. What is it that's turning these girls off? I saw a great video on youtube of a guy talking to an NIC/Panhel group about eliminating the stuff that was necessary 20 years ago but really isn't now. Sorry I can't be more specific (I'm reading this post NYE revelry before going to bed) but if you do a search through here and on you tube, I bet you'll find it. The nub of his jist is if having meetings is turning everyone off, stop having them. Facebook, emails, texts etc. work perfectly well to disseminate information. Your problem may not be meetings, but there may be some other thing that just because it's been done that way for 100 years doesn't mean you have to keep doing it that way. All you HAVE to do is maintain the requirements your sorority headquarters sets forth, which you may find are a lot more loose than you think.
Start asking questions and think of ways to work with what they're saying and not just shut them down. Good luck!
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