Question/dilemma to any member of Kappa Alpha Psi

[Tre 1]

I have a question to any of the Kappas on here, if there is any. I didn't feel comfortable asking this on PP or Black Greek Forum because there are too many Kappas posting on them, and most of them didn't seem to be very friendly. Are there any Kappas posting on here? because I didn't see any. If there are I just have a question. I'm actually down to be on line this fall and I won't say which school. There's a total of 5 of us that are pledging this fall, and I feel very fortunate to be one of the 5. The problem is this summer I started hanging out with one of the members girl. She and I live in the same city and have known each other since highschool. We've always been friends, nothing more, nothing less. Eventually, one thing led to another and I had sex with her. She knows how much I want to be a Kappa, and she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years, so we decided to keep it under wraps. I'm just afraid that it's going to get out, so I'm wondering if I should just tell him and get it over with. I'm just afraid that if he finds out or even if I do tell him, I'll get cut from line. For the Kappas on here who have girls if a line member had sex with your girl and told you the truth, would you tell him he can't be down anymore? I'm just need some advice. Thanks in advance.

Tre