I know there are a few threads about this topic but i wanted to specify my circumstances. I pledged a local sorority that is not recognized by the school i went to last semester but it is recognized by the city it is in. I transferred to a new school this semester and am looking to disaffiliate from the sorority that i was in at my own school. im not doing this just because i transferred, but rather because things changed once i left. The sisters hate each other and spread rumors about each other behind their backs. They also are having problems with other sororities on campus because frankly some of my sister are really bad gossipers and i dont want to be associated with that at all. Also the pledge class that they took this semester is making a bad name for the sorority by acting in ways that used to not be allowed in the sorority. Things have changed so much and i dont feel as if i can be a sister anymore and still keep a good conscience. At the new school that i am at iv made a lot of friends and they want me to pledge a national sorority on campus that they pledged this semester.. i really want to do this, but dont know how to break it to my sisters at my old school that i want to go from inactive to disaffiliated. Im also nervous about going through rush once i disaffiliate. should i be honest and say i was in a local but disaffiliated or should i wait until if/when i get a bid and accept it? HHELP