not getting a bid :-(

i was super exicted to rush i go to a small school with only 4 sororities and i only got invited back to one party it was the sorority i wanted but unfortunately i didn't get a bid. my friend(that i convinced to rush by the way) got a bid to another sorority but she really didn't even want it i know the sorority i was going out for is very competitive ... i feel like im an outgoing fun goodlooking person (i don't mean to sound cocky) im really heartbroken im new to this school this semester and i was looking for a way to meet some people. im not really shure how to deal with this i was really looking forward to it , has this happened to anyone else