Greetings to a very quiet board!!!
As the mom of 3 Kappa Alpha Order Legacies (My dad is a KAO from the Alpha Omicron Chapter 1957), I have been trying to raise my sons to think of themselves as "gentlemen" 
My oldest son is now 14 and looking to college...his requirements are simple...must have a KAO chapter to join...must have a Phi Mu Chapter to find a bride 

  OK OK...so mom is a tinsy fanatical 
Son is an excellent center, fairly decent guard and tackle, fantastic pitcher, wants to teach little kids (ie, k-5)...
recommendations for schools?  In other words, tell me about your chapters and your school!
Thanks...and in the greek spirt...