Hi Daisy,
I'm just wondering if you know if your roomate dropped out of Kappa Delta as in, she filled out paperwork voiding her membership and turned in her pin through National KD Headquarters, or she kind of just dropped out through her chapter by going inactive for the last 2 years of her college career. If she did the former, she is not considered a Kappa Delta anymore.

If she didn't fill out any sort of formal paper work and did not officially "drop her pin," then I would tell her to go to
Kappa Delta's Website and search for her nearest Alumnae Association. There will be a contact (AA President, most likely), and she can email them to find out how to get involved. I'm a very new alumna myself, so I'm not involved with an AA yet. KDDani was President of the Pitt. area AA last year I believe...maybe she can add something?!
I wish your roomate the best! And roses to you for trying to get a Panhellenic sister involved as an alum!
~Shae