Boys...boys...boys...

[GreekLove]

Okay, here's my story:

My sorority had a date night over two months ago with another sorority on campus. Since I wasn't dating anyone, I took a good friend and had an awesome time just dancing with everyone and being there at our function. While there, I met a guy, whom one of my own sorority sisters had asked to come. I had known him from being on campus, and he's in a fraternity here. We ended up talking and dancing for the rest of the night and went and hung out with him and some of his brothers afterwards and I ended up staying at his house. Keep in mind, we were both sober (trying to be a good risk management coordinator!), and so it wasn't a random drunken "go home with the guy.”

Then we started dating. I went to his fraternity formal with him about 3 weeks ago, we went out on dates, and had a pretty good "relationship." So, he calls me two nights ago. He's been kinda quiet all week and so I go by his house (after he asks me to) and everything is normal. Hanging out, tells me how great I am....the usual stuff we talk about. He tells me that we’re moving too fast and that I’m the greatest girl that he’s ever met and that he really wants to be with me, but he’s used to his independence and hanging out with his guy friends all the time and that I am too busy for him (I’m involved in a lot of campus organizations). Everything he told me I agreed with, so we ended our conversation by deciding that we were still going to hang out and do stuff and remain friends.

Fast forward to last night, when I went out for our Thursday night parties on campus and he was there. I said talked to him for a few minutes and then left to go dance with my sorority sisters. A lot of them didn’t know that we “broke up” so they kept asking him about how our relationship is and all that fun stuff. He tells one of my sisters (which is his best friend from high school) that he thinks that I am the best thing that could have ever happened to him and that he knows that we will be together for a long time. So, imagine the shock when I tell her that we’re not together anymore, because he never told her! He called me later last night and told me to have fun this weekend at my sorority formal and to be careful and tells me that he might come by to see me (luckily I had a date before we started dating, so at least I’m not stuck without a date this weekend!). Then, he sends me a text message today telling me the same thing!

So, my question to all of you is what should I do? Should I try to talk to him and tell him how I feel since I really do like him? Or should I just let things lay low for a little while, since our spring break is next week and we both have different plans? Do you think that he still cares about me and wants to be with me? Thanks in advance for the help! I really appreciate it, because I’m confused!!