I really enjoyed Beloved the movie.
My take:
i mean what was up with ole girl walking out of the water?
*Water symbolizes rebirth
When Paul d came into the house and saw red was that Beloved?
*Yes
What was the point of the movie?
*That's up to you to decide
How is motherhood defined in this crazy movie?
*Loaded question...I saw it as mommy killing baby, baby coming back to "forgive" mommy, mommy giving up baby again as well as driving a wedge between herself and her other daughter. A bleak picture of motherhood at best.
If she was killed at 2 why did she come back grown?
*It's the progression of life. Anyway, how could a two year old be effective in the movie?

Seriously, several times we were drawn into the idea that she was back for good and never really left.
Was she really pregnant?
*Yes