Take her out to dinner or get her a gift?.......

PandaOnProzac · #1 10-25-2002, 12:55 AM

I just started seeing this one girl and her birthday is coming up. I just got my first paycheck of the school year and I don't know if I should spend it on dinner with her or on a gift. We've grown pretty close and I honestly believe we are at the beyond dating level but just careful cuz it's a little early.

sororitygirl2 · #2 10-25-2002, 01:40 AM

If it is still early (like within a month), take her out somewhere nice and get her a card. However, if it has been a little longer than that, or if you are SUPER close already, go ahead and get her a gift. Just try not to freak her out... get a small gift, nothing TOO sappy!

PandaOnProzac · #3 10-25-2002, 02:49 AM

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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
If it is still early (like within a month), take her out somewhere nice and get her a card. However, if it has been a little longer than that, or if you are SUPER close already, go ahead and get her a gift. Just try not to freak her out... get a small gift, nothing TOO sappy!

I'm the King of Sappy! haha

Pickel · #4 10-28-2002, 10:40 PM

Flowers might be just the thing for her or a plant depending on your wants are,(to establish, or build on a foundation)and if she has any allergies. Good Luck

Pickel

Kevin · #5 10-28-2002, 10:44 PM

Women always like to recieve jewelry boxes (and usually can find uses for them).

Hootie · #6 10-28-2002, 10:48 PM

I'd suggest dinner and perhaps some flowers or a teddy bear. I know it sounds traditional and perhaps a little overdone, but ultimately if you're not THAT close then I don't see why she should be expecting a gift.

chideltjen · #7 10-29-2002, 12:08 AM

flowers are a definite. dinner is cool. i am not saying spend $70 but something cute like a lil cafe or dessert bar or something. Ice cream parlors are always a kick.

PandaOnProzac · #8 10-29-2002, 07:01 AM

After hearing ideas and advice from people I think what I'll do is take her out to dinner. Nothing fancy but at the same time not cheap. I'm thinking of buying her a necklace of some sort. And I'll also have a framed document of a fancy print up of the top ten reasons I love her.

Imthechamp · #9 10-29-2002, 12:22 PM

Why the hell would you spend your first paycheck on someone you barely know?

HUH? What's wrong with you man?

Just make her a silly card (like the shitty ones you made for your mom in 3rd grade) give it to her, then wish her a happy birthday.

It's the thought that counts, right ladies?

SATX*APhi · #10 10-29-2002, 05:28 PM

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Originally posted by Imthechamp
It's the thought that counts, right ladies?

Generally speaking, but your attitude sucks!!

sororitygirl2 · #11 10-30-2002, 12:12 AM

TOP TEN REASONS YOU LOVE HER? Wow! I thought you said you just started seeing her...

PandaOnProzac · #12 10-30-2002, 02:22 AM

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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
TOP TEN REASONS YOU LOVE HER? Wow! I thought you said you just started seeing her...

We've known each other since summer though. I don't know why it took me long enough to ask her out though. She admitted the feelings were there long ago.