Take her out to dinner or get her a gift?.......
 

I just started seeing this one girl and her birthday is coming up. I just got my first paycheck of the school year and I don't know if I should spend it on dinner with her or on a gift. We've grown pretty close and I honestly believe we are at the beyond dating level but just careful cuz it's a little early.

If it is still early (like within a month), take her out somewhere nice and get her a card. However, if it has been a little longer than that, or if you are SUPER close already, go ahead and get her a gift. Just try not to freak her out... get a small gift, nothing TOO sappy!

I'm the King of Sappy! haha

Flowers might be just the thing for her or a plant depending on your wants are,(to establish, or build on a foundation)and if she has any allergies. Good Luck

Pickel

Women always like to recieve jewelry boxes (and usually can find uses for them).

I'd suggest dinner and perhaps some flowers or a teddy bear. I know it sounds traditional and perhaps a little overdone, but ultimately if you're not THAT close then I don't see why she should be expecting a gift.

flowers are a definite. dinner is cool. i am not saying spend $70 but something cute like a lil cafe or dessert bar or something. Ice cream parlors are always a kick.

After hearing ideas and advice from people I think what I'll do is take her out to dinner. Nothing fancy but at the same time not cheap. I'm thinking of buying her a necklace of some sort. And I'll also have a framed document of a fancy print up of the top ten reasons I love her.

Why the hell would you spend your first paycheck on someone you barely know?

HUH? What's wrong with you man?

Just make her a silly card (like the shitty ones you made for your mom in 3rd grade) give it to her, then wish her a happy birthday.

It's the thought that counts, right ladies?

Generally speaking, but your attitude sucks!!

TOP TEN REASONS YOU LOVE HER? Wow! I thought you said you just started seeing her...

We've known each other since summer though. I don't know why it took me long enough to ask her out though. She admitted the feelings were there long ago.