Can't decide if I should pledge- advise please?

wimbledon09 · #1 03-18-2009, 11:56 AM

I will be attending LSU in the fall, and the decision of whether not to pledge has become more complicated than choosing a college. I am in the honors college, so pledging could help boost my campus involvement, provide me with an outlet, or just cause me way too much stress. I welcome any honest advice. Thanks.

Here are the reasons I am thinking about pledging: campus and community involvement, networking, friendship, having a house to go to, and meeting lots of new people since I don't know anyone going to LSU

Reasons against: the partying image (I like social events but I'm not into hard partying, getting drunk, and hooking up) and the cost

If someone from LSU could tell me a little about the sororities there that would be great too! I have looked at the websites, but personal accounts are much better.

AOII Angel · #2 03-18-2009, 12:17 PM

Yes, sorority life at LSU can be expensive, but the reasons you are thinking of joining are valid. I can tell you personally that my campus involvement directly linked to membership in AOII made a major difference during my interviews for medical school. Not only that, I learned a lot about time management, leadership and organization. These are lessons I use daily. If you think that all sorority members are hard drinking sluts who stab each other in the back, you couldn't be farther from the truth. I encourage you to go through rush with an open mind and see for yourself. LSU has a wonderful Greek system, and it would be a priviledge to join any of the groups on that campus.

nikki1920 · #3 03-18-2009, 01:18 PM

Join some on campus groups that are not Greek, first. You are attending college for an education first and a social life second. Greek life will come, if that is what you want. Get acclimated to the campus first. You have four years to join an Sorority, there is no need to rush.

AGDee · #4 03-18-2009, 01:26 PM

If you are talking about joining an NPC group at LSU, I need to correct what nikki said because your chances of getting into a sorority are significantly (and I mean SIGNIFICANTLY) more slim if you do not go through recruitment your freshman year. There are recruitment information sessions going on where you can get a lot more information if you're local to any of the cities listed. Here is a link: http://appl003.lsu.edu/slas/greekaffairs2.nsf/$Content/+PHC+Sorority+Recruitment?OpenDocument

The main reason that I joined a sorority was because I was involved in a million different extracurricular activities in high school and when I got to college, I felt really lost and bored. I was used to having meetings and places to go and things to do. My sorority experience not only filled that need but also gave me friendships and experiences that have lasted a life time.

KSUViolet06 · #5 03-18-2009, 01:46 PM

If you're on the fence about rushing at LSU, consider the fact that the recruitment process is competitive and it is very difficult to rush as a sophomore or junior and get a bid.

So if you don't do it this year (as a freshman), and change your mind next year, you could potentially be out of luck.

The sorority chapters at LSU are full of campus leaders and women who are involved in different organizations on campus. Yes, there are social events, but being in a sorority involves MUCH more than partying and drinking. Recruitment itself allows you to meet women in the different chapters and find out about them yourself.

AZ-AlphaXi · #6 03-18-2009, 01:49 PM

another consideration is that just by going thru recruitment doesn't mean that you'll either get a bid or have to accept a bid. My recommendation is to sign up and start the process. If you don't like it, don't like the groups, don't like the women .. you can always drop out.

KSUViolet06 · #7 03-18-2009, 02:02 PM

Exactly, you can always withdraw from recruitment if you find that it's not for you.

Another thing to think about:

If you're going to go through recruitment, it is VERY IMPORTANT that you get recommendations for every chapter on campus. In order to have them ready for recruitment, many girls start lining them up early. The longer you wait, the less time you have to get these before recruitment, and they're pretty important in terms of getting a bid at LSU.

wimbledon09 · #8 03-18-2009, 02:15 PM

Thanks for the advise everyone. One of the reasons that I am putting so much thought into this now instead of during the summer is so that I can get all my recommendations. I do think I am going to rush. I think it would be foolish of me not to. I will just have to see if I find a fit and if my parents are willing to help me financially with the extra costs. I will just keep an open mind and not get my heart set either way. I think that way I will get the most out of recruitment. And even if I don't end up pledging, I will at least have made friends and contacts during the process.

AOII Angel · #9 03-18-2009, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by wimbledon09

Thanks for the advise everyone. One of the reasons that I am putting so much thought into this now instead of during the summer is so that I can get all my recommendations. I do think I am going to rush. I think it would be foolish of me not to. I will just have to see if I find a fit and if my parents are willing to help me financially with the extra costs. I will just keep an open mind and not get my heart set either way. I think that way I will get the most out of recruitment. And even if I don't end up pledging, I will at least have made friends and contacts during the process.

Great attitude, wimbledon09. Get working on those recs, I almost went to LSU and was told I needed two recs per group. Even having lived in Baton Rouge my whole life, finding two recs for each sorority was quite a job. It was much easier when I decided to go to ULM and only needed recs for 4 sororities!

Elephant Walk · #10 03-18-2009, 04:26 PM

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You have four years to join an Sorority, there is no need to rush.

Wrong.

She has a year, maybe two.

knight_shadow · #11 03-18-2009, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk

Wrong.

She has a year, maybe two.

nikki1920 was speaking from an NPHC perspective, but others have already pointed out that this is not the case for NPCs.

nikki1920 · #12 03-18-2009, 04:49 PM

^^Yes, I was. My bad for not reading the question as closely as I should have.

ree-Xi · #13 03-18-2009, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by wimbledon09

I will be attending LSU in the fall, and the decision of whether not to pledge has become more complicated than choosing a college. I am in the honors college, so pledging could help boost my campus involvement, provide me with an outlet, or just cause me way too much stress. I welcome any honest advise. Thanks.

Here are the reasons I am thinking about pledging: campus and community involvement, networking, friendship, having a house to go to, and meeting lots of new people since I don't know anyone going to LSU

Reasons against: the partying image (I like social events but I'm not into hard partying, getting drunk, and hooking up) and the cost

If someone from LSU could tell me a little about the sororities there that would be great too! I have looked at the websites, but personal accounts are much better.

If one of your biggest reasons against is the "partying image", then "all" you have to do is not get drunk and hook up all over the place. As for the money, maybe get a job now and through the summer, ask your parents what they plan to cover in terms of spending money and extras, etc. You should be able to get an idea of the potential costs (do a search on your school and "Dues", or "costs", etc.) and get a better idea of whether or not you can swing it.

If you are in the honors program, you likely have good time management skills, and on the flip side, could have a lot to offer a sorority. (When you think about it, a lot of people wonder what can a sorority do for THEM, versus the opposite). I think that when women go into recruitment with that mindset, the playing field shifts a bit, and the process becomes more mutual.

Don't worry about the rumored partying issue, be yourself, and try to figure out the financial issue. It doesn't have to be complicated. I say go for it!

Blue Skies · #14 03-18-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by AOII Angel

Yes, sorority life at LSU can be expensive, but the reasons you are thinking of joining are valid. I can tell you personally that my campus involvement directly linked to membership in AOII made a major difference during my interviews for medical school. Not only that, I learned a lot about time management, leadership and organization. These are lessons I use daily. If you think that all sorority members are hard drinking sluts who stab each other in the back, you couldn't be farther from the truth. I encourage you to go through rush with an open mind and see for yourself. LSU has a wonderful Greek system, and it would be a priviledge to join any of the groups on that campus.

Cosign. Getting a job or getting into grad school after graduation involves a lot more than just getting good grades. Employers and graduate schools look for well-rounded individuals. You will need people skills, organizational skills, leadership skills, etc. All of these can be developed by involvement with a GLO.

You will also have tons of fun, and develop lasting friendships and lasting memories. You will have a home away from home. Go through recruitment and I'm sure you'll find lots of women just like you. Get those recs in order, enjoy your recruitment experience, and your time at LSU. You are at the beginning of a wonderful adventure! (And by all means, rush as a freshman. It's a no-brainer for this particular school.)

If money is an issue, apply for financial aid (and specifically) for a work-study job. These jobs tend to be a little more interesting than the norm, usually pay a little bit better, and often provide excellent references (i.e. from professors) for future endeavors.

#15 03-18-2009, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by wimbledon09

Thanks for the advise everyone. One of the reasons that I am putting so much thought into this now instead of during the summer is so that I can get all my recommendations. I do think I am going to rush. I think it would be foolish of me not to. I will just have to see if I find a fit and if my parents are willing to help me financially with the extra costs. I will just keep an open mind and not get my heart set either way. I think that way I will get the most out of recruitment. And even if I don't end up pledging, I will at least have made friends and contacts during the process.

I hate to be nitpicky, but recruitment (rush) =/= pledge. In order to pledge, one must participate in recruitment, successfully receive a bid, THEN pledge. Assuming you're talking about NPC rush, of course.