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Old 09-13-2002, 04:42 AM
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Post I thought I should let you all know...

I disassociated from my sorority last week.

It was not on angry terms at all.

I went home last weekend, to spend the 1 year anniversary of my father's death with my mother and sister. We talked a lot about priorities and life, and my sorority came up in the conversation.

My sorority has just changed a lot since I pledged, and I truly didn't feel it was something I should continue involvement with at this stage of my life. I didn't feel that my ideals fit with the ideals of the sorority in it's new form.

I am still a great supporter of greek life on all campuses. I highly recommend to all my friends in college that they rush just to get the experience, and that maybe through doing that they'll find their niche at their school.

I hope I'm still welcome here, because I truly enjoy the chats and dynamic on these boards.

~Sarah

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Old 09-13-2002, 04:49 AM
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Shine,

I am so sorry about your father . You of course are welcome-we would miss you so don't go away
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Old 09-13-2002, 04:59 AM
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Shine, as I said before, I am really, really sorry about your father, and my heart goes out to you and your family.

I really enjoy your posts and I hope that you will stay! I think its really wonderful and wise of you to realize that your sorority no longer parallels your own ideals... better to disassociate than to be part of a group you cannot be 100% proud to be affliated with.

I'm really looking forward to reading your posts in the future, no matter what the topic!

All my love to you and your family, Shine!

XOXO,
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Old 09-13-2002, 09:58 AM
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Shine, I pm'ed you!
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Old 09-13-2002, 06:43 PM
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Thanks for your responses, guys. I'm doing OK about my dad. Quitting my sorority was a very hard decision, but I know it was the correct one.
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Old 09-13-2002, 07:21 PM
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Shine,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.
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Old 09-13-2002, 07:29 PM
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Shine,

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened. Still, the most important thing right now is YOU.

I know it was a hard decision to make, so I wish you the best of luck on whatever you decide to do now.

You are absolutely welcome to post here anytime you like! Don't even think for a second that you're not welcomed here!

Good luck to you!
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Old 09-14-2002, 12:29 AM
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Shine,

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened. Still, the most important thing right now is YOU.

I know it was a hard decision to make, so I wish you the best of luck on whatever you decide to do now.

You are absolutely welcome to post here anytime you like! Don't even think for a second that you're not welcomed here!

Good luck to you!
Ditto what OTW said. You are most certainly welcome on GC, Shine.
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Old 09-14-2002, 02:28 AM
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You have my deepest sympathy about your father. I wish you the best.
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Old 09-29-2002, 01:54 AM
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Sorry to hear this Shine. (Didn't read this until AFTER I pmd you ) I hope things are getting better for you. You're in my prayers.
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Old 09-29-2002, 10:21 AM
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Shine, My heart goes out to you!

It was very hard on me when My Mother Passed Away and still is after 4 years! I still tear up over Her, she was a very special Lady!

I think, if there is a way that maybe you can stay as a Member of Your Org. it might be good to look into!

Alum Status, or Temporary Status!

Check it out! Please! Under the circumstances, I feel there may not be a problem. You worked hard to get your Active Badge and Status. Do not throw it away!


Are You Welcome on G C, A resounding YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Luv Ya, and Hang In There!
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Old 09-29-2002, 11:21 AM
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What a rough time for you.

Hang in there, sweetheart.

You're always welcome here.
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Old 10-01-2002, 01:48 AM
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hye babe--
i am also thinking of deactivating...so i know what a hard decision that is hang in there!
sarah
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Old 10-01-2002, 02:40 AM
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Sorry to hear this Shine. (Didn't read this until AFTER I pmd you ) I hope things are getting better for you. You're in my prayers.
No worries.
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Old 10-01-2002, 02:41 AM
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hye babe--
i am also thinking of deactivating...so i know what a hard decision that is hang in there!
sarah
Just go with your heart!
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