Need some help. Where do I begin?

[justamom]

OK, the situation here is really bothering me. How do I go about getting involved with the our Alum assoc.? Do I send money somewhere, what should I join? I know it sounds crazy, but it is such a "closed door" situation that I'm REALLY getting ticked off! It is controlled by 3 women representing 3 sororities and a couple of lackeys! As a side note, those 3 sororities are our greatest LEGACY recruits to LSU. Last year I said, "If I need to join in order to help, I'd be glad to." The response was a VERY SWEET, "Oh, that won't be necessary. We'll let you know who needs a rec." It was the classic, "Let's do lunch" response. I called the current President this summer (AFTER a previous conversation) and left a message on her machine.
I mentioned recruitment was getting so close and I wanted to help our area girls by making sure they had a formal AXO form and/or letter of introduction. I had NO RESPONSE! AXO is not the ONLY one with this problem. DG got their's resolved this year but others have no representation. Is there a protocol I should follow? I'm beyond worrying about stepping on any toes.
With the possibility of AXO colonizing at LSU, a strong chapter at Tech and all the young ladies that go out of state, I find it LUDICROUS that these girls have to seek ME out. I'm the AXO secret alum... Any advice would help. EDITED TO ADD- I'm JUST about to the point where I will start naming NAMES!!! (Well, probably not...)