Alumna Initiate Question

I am going to contact IHQ about this to, but I was wondering if some of you could give me feedback too.

I have a friend who I think would be a good Alumna Initiate. I know that in college she wanted to join a sorority but her boyfriend at them time (now ex-fiance/boyfriend) told her he would have nothing to do with her if she did. A few months ago, the subject was brought up again (when they were still engaged), and I told her she could still do it through Alum Initiation, but he shook his head and she said no, that it was ok and she wasnt really interested. I know that she is however. And he's gone (forgive me if I jump up and down).
So has anyone ever recommended someone for Alum Initiation?
Does anyone know the process and what you have to do?
Thank you!