How Did U Feel Honestly!!!

[search4thelight]

I dont know how comfortable you all feel about answering this question, but I will ask anyway, in hopes that I will get a good response!!

I am going to be a sophmore when I return to dillard university in the fall. Pledging has been on my mind for some time, although I will not disclose which organization.

I want to know those of you who did decided to join a greek letter organization, how did you feel starting the process. I ask this because I am a very shy person at times, and when I am around people I dont know I tend to appear anti-social. It just takes me a minute to warm up to people. I dont want to be fake but I dont want to appear antisocial! And I dont want to attend any rush activities or anything and feel "weird." I wanted to know I mean is this normal for some of you, and if you felt this way how did you overcome it!!Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

[nikki1920]

Just be yourself, but try not to come off as standoffish. I was the same way. Smile. My best friend, who I met in college, always says that she thought I was SOOOOO mean b/c I did not smile often. Sometimes that is all it takes. Smile, take a deep breath, and jump in!! Good luck!!!