How Did U Feel Honestly!!!
 

I dont know how comfortable you all feel about answering this question, but I will ask anyway, in hopes that I will get a good response!!

I am going to be a sophmore when I return to dillard university in the fall. Pledging has been on my mind for some time, although I will not disclose which organization.

I want to know those of you who did decided to join a greek letter organization, how did you feel starting the process. I ask this because I am a very shy person at times, and when I am around people I dont know I tend to appear anti-social. It just takes me a minute to warm up to people. I dont want to be fake but I dont want to appear antisocial! And I dont want to attend any rush activities or anything and feel "weird." I wanted to know I mean is this normal for some of you, and if you felt this way how did you overcome it!!Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

Just be yourself, but try not to come off as standoffish. I was the same way. Smile. My best friend, who I met in college, always says that she thought I was SOOOOO mean b/c I did not smile often. Sometimes that is all it takes. Smile, take a deep breath, and jump in!! :) :p Good luck!!!