What to say/not say to a woman looking at NPHC?
The daughter of a friend will be attending college soon. As an African American, she is interested in joining an NPHC group. As an adviser as several campuses, I am somewhat aware of the intake process but not in detail. Is it appropriate of me to inquire of the daughter or her parents "how is it going?" or any other such questions that I'd normally ask of one going thru NPC recruitment? I certainly do not want to act nosy! However, the daughter has remarked on occasion that she is impressed that I've stayed involved since graduation, how it works in NPC, etc. She's a great young lady - very musically gifted (will have a scholarship), athletic and should have no problem graduating from college. I'd love to have her!
So, any advice from my NPHC sisters would be appreciated. I want her to have a great college experience and I know she'll be a great member of whatever group gets her. TIA....
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