nerves

[curlzz]

hi everyone,

i was just wondering if any of you guys were nervous as an aspirant and what did you do to help bring everything back into focus so that you can present yourself as a strong candidate. i would love to join your extraordinary organization but i am worried that my nerves may come in the way of my true colors.

thanks!

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by curlzz

hi everyone,

i was just wondering if any of you ladies were nervous as an aspirant and what did you do to help bring everything back into focus so that you can present yourself as a strong candidate. i would love to join your extraordinary organization but i am worried that my nerves may come in the way of my true colors.

thanks!

Fixed that for you.

Do what you would do if you couldn't ask us what to do. Good luck.

[curlzz]

thank you for the correction. my concern is what if what i think i should be doing is not what i should be doing?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by curlzz

thank you for the correction. my concern is what if what i think i should be doing is not what i should be doing?

Then you will learn like everyone else had/has to do.

Better yet, talk to people who know you in person. They will be able to give you advice that is specific to your personality. Good luck.

[curlzz]

thank you very much!

[psychdesire]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Then you will learn like everyone else had/has to do.

Better yet, talk to people who know you in person. They will be able to give you advice that is specific to your personality. Good luck.

very good advice. gather information from your friends about your strengths and weaknesses, and work on your weaknesses all summer.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Fixed that for you.

Do what you would do if you couldn't ask us what to do. Good luck.

Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by psychdesire

very good advice. gather information from your friends about your strengths and weaknesses, and work on your weaknesses all summer.

This advice should not be Delta-specific.

[psychdesire]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

This advice should not be Delta-specific.

definitely, I meant personality and personal growth wise.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

This advice should not be Delta-specific.

People should learn basic interview, social interaction, and life skills through this process?

Nu uh...

[nikki1920]

Just be yourself, don't be so nervous, everyone in any organization was in your shoes at one point. Be friendly and professional, do your research on the chapter and organization beforehand, and relax.