Pledging GF
Hey guys I'm just looking for advice. I myself have never been involved in greek life (i never saw the point a having to gain friends). But my Gf is rushing right now and i have mixed feelings about it. She doesnt know i have mixed feelings because she is really excited about it and i dont want to let her down. I've even been helping her choose her outfits for rush events but... The truth is I'm just not comfortable with the whole lets get wasted with frat boys thing... How often are mixers / greek only events on average. I know i can go to some parties which is my only saving grace. I know they pre-game before every football game and i cant do that... I guess i just feel like im kinda getting stuck on the back burner. This whole thing really surprises me because I've been dating my GF for a little more than a year and we've been attached at the hip for a couple years now. Advice? Suggestion? Anyone?
TIA
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