I'd say that most of this stuff would vary based on chapter although I'm pretty sure that its against Sigma Kappa's National hazing policies to say that she can't wear letters or having anything with the crest on it. Even though its against the National policy that doesn't mean chapters don't have special meanings for when each girl is given her first shirt with letters on it or something with the crest on it for the first time.
My chapter never had a policy about wearing letters or whatnot & I was given shirts with letters on them to wear at greek events. My big sis gave me a car decal during big/lil week but it didn't have the letters, it just said "Sigma Kappa" in pink & purple.
If I were you I'd buy her Sigma Kappa stationery, picture frames (she'll have tons of pictures that will need frames!!!), dove or heart necklaces/bracelets, cups, pens, etc. She'll get tons of stuff like that during big/lil week anyway & she'll always put them to use I'm sure!
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