A problem that needs a solution...PLEASE READ
OK here it goes....
I love my girlfriend to death, but sometimes she just dont think. She recently went on her NSO and when she returned she brought me a gift. One of the gifts happened to be little magnets with symbols of the fraternity I am interested in. Her claim is that she didn't know that i was that interested..because when she showed me the gift I snapped on her. (Something I later apologized for.) I think I hurt her feelings because i could not accept the gift...but that has too much bad karma surrounding it for me. I am not normally superstitous (sp?) but I know that keeping stuff like that could not only cause me to be blacklisted as a perp but also beatdown. I know 2 men closely who are members of this organization one a cousin who I admire and the other a former teacher and mentor. I think I should give it to them and then just make up a story. I know I have not earned the right to possess such things. I just cant believe she said she didn't know how serious I was..when I researched term paper style on the fraternity and read the Divine Nine from cover to cover a first for me ever in my lifetime. Has anyone ever encountered or heard of such situations? Any suggestions how to rectify this peacefully and DISCREETLY?
Peace and Love
Alias_01
[This message has been edited by Alias_01 (edited July 15, 2001).]
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