There are some excellent threads about and for mothers. Save yourself a lot of heartache and abuse and read those before asking questions. Also, remember that it is in your daughter's best interest to keep her anonymous. You can say a region, a state, a conference, etc., but particularly if it's a small Greek system, you don't want something you say to interfere with your daughter's success. On the other hand, you can help her a lot by understanding the process and giving her the right kind of encouragement!
I'm not a mother, but I'm certain from following recruitment here on GC that it's harder on the mothers who can't do anything to help than it is on the daughters living it. I believe the common suggestions are rest and vodka.
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