Hey guys,
I’m new to the forum. this is kind of a double post, but my situation differs from others.
Looking back, it was the dumbest mistake for me not going greek when I was an undergraduate. I had a blast in my undergrad, but I would go greek if I could go back and redo everything. I’m currently in the application process for med school (future doctor in training over here, haha). I was wondering do fraternities accept guys in grad/medical schools?
I’m a chill guy, nothing wrong with me…except maybe that im 23. I’m a pretty well rounded guy. I surf, used to play water polo in high school and won CIF. I majored in drama (great for songfest/greek sing). Also, I’m Asian (if that affects people’s decisions), but like I said I’m chill. I’m financially stable/affluent (got a porsche

) and dont mind kicking it with freshman. no discrimination over here.
I’m not interested in professional fraternities (esp since I don’t think there are ones for doctors…). I just really messed up by rushing the wrong house as an undergrad. i was bidded by a top house, but it just didnt feel right and didnt take it.
So, does anyone know of a fraternity with an open mind that will take med students? or am I sunk? thoughts? anyone got any suggestions about how to approach this non-traditional situation? should i contact nationals first to talk with the chapter advisor and discuss my situation with him mono y mono or would that piss the actives off? should i even try? i mean, you would think that at least one chapter could use a rich athletic chill soon-to-be doctor, right?
thanks in advance. take it easy