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Originally posted by DZBookie
Also, my chapter wouldn't have invited the girl back to pref if we weren't interested in the girl. There have been times when the chapter knew a pnm would be suiciding and would deliberately put her at the bottom of our second list. (we would fill our A list and still pick her up)
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With all of the rules in snap bidding and quota additions-- I hope this does not happen anymore! I know of someone this happened to way back before the rules were corrected on SB and QA at her school....and she found out she was not on the top bid list because she was offered snap bids from chapter's under quota and at quota (the school did not know proper procedure so they let everyone snap bid until every PNM had bids). The woman did not understand why she was getting bids from other chapters (including the one she wanted) when she suicided her top sorority and pretty much knew that she was a shoe-in there! It caused ill feelings and things were never right for the girl in the sorority-- and she eventually dropped out!! Things have since changed at her school since this incident because what happened was brought to the greek advisor's attention!
In no way am I putting down what anyone's chapter used to do/does-- I am just giving an example of outcomes from this.
