James seriously please stop posting like Decadence.
I did a speed read of that and got a couple things.
I think I hold doors just as much for guys as I do girls, old women as young. If my buddy calls me, I will call him back. It's just common decency and not things you do exclusively for girls. The first second you give or get more in a relationship than the other person, it's downhill.
-Rudey
--Most "nice guys" are self-labeled. Ever notice that?