Lana -
I think we've had that no wine glasses, etc rule for a while. So at formals (the only thing we had favors for) we switched to boxer shorts. Yah...no drinking...but a dude walking around with his boys a-swingin was fine.
LOL!
You can sing songs that are clever and funny without getting outright dirty...run that by the powers that be. I honestly don't see what the problem is if you keep it clean, especially if the rest of the groups can do it. We had some interesting ones too, but they didn't get sung outside the confines of the chapter house.
Well, I'm off to do shots out of my candle holder
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