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Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands
ROTFLMFAO! I hollered! Did you know all this before you married dude? How long did you stay married to him? Who asked for the divorce, you or him? You only talked about this dude lightweight. Said very little about him. This reads more like you were his mother than his wife. I know a lot of dudes who are having this problem and complain about their wives acting like they’re their moms. It’s funny as hell, but they’ll be pissed about it while they’re telling me stories. One of them complains how his wife leaves notes for him on the fridge with a list of chores to do, like he’s a child LOL!
I was watching a documentary on marriage a minute ago, and it was talking about how women observe the dudes they’re with. They’ll watch everything he does and how he handles situations and turn begin to formulate opinions about him. That’s why I’m not married LOL.
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The part about women constantly observing and judging their man is very true. Instead of working through issues, they silently form opinions and let anger and resentment grow until they check out emotionally and leave. That’s why a lot of men get blindsided by divorce. They didn’t even know their wife had been keeping score the whole time.
Your last line about choosing not to get married is the real punchline. You clearly understand that modern marriage is a raw deal for men, and a lot of dudes (not just you) are choosing to avoid the risks altogether. Smart move on your part.