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Originally Posted by lo52jo

I am a pledge in a sorority and I am so upset in it.

I had my heart set on sorority XYZ round 1 of rush...Bid day I get my second choice sorority and I was beyond miserable on bid day and didn't leave my bed for 48 hours I was so upset...

I've been a pledge for a month now and I am so upset still and unhappy...

I went home for a weekend because I wanted to see my therapist. I was set on dropping because my therapist said it was the best option for my mental health...

I have wanted to be in a sorority since I was 12 so the idea of going through college not being in one scares me. I have been miserable ever since I got my bid from my second choice.

I don't know what to do and my mom, friends, family, etc. have noticed a drastic change in my personality ever since I started pledging.

I really do not know what to do.

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

...You can decide to be happy (and get the appropriate counseling to help this process along) or you can drop or you can decide to be unhappy.

Your choice.

It's not the sorority's fault.

Originally Posted by clemsongirl

...If the "pledging activities" are activities that are considered hazing, ask yourself if you really want to stay in an organization that treats its new members that way.

Because we do not know you personally, please re-read your words to us and our responses.

Sometimes the best help comes from within, and from those who know you and whom you trust most.