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33girl,
Thanks! That's a good idea. I know we had at least one crying girl at pref last year, and the sister who was with her had no idea what to do and got really flustered herself, because said PNM kept talking about how she didn't want to be there, thought she would have gotten a bid at ABC/XYZ, etc.
As for my current sisters-- for the most part everyone seems pretty happy! Which, I'm glad of. I can't speak for the whole house, but there only seems to be frustration during Philo events (if we're a noticeably smaller group than the other houses, XYZ has 40 girls competing in something and we have 7, etc) and during recruitment-- which is stressful for everyone. I know my pledge class is very close, and we only had one drop. Like I said, things are getting better and I think with hard work we'll grow. ^^
Clemson Girl:
I actually didn't know no phones was a common rule, I'll try to find out from our delegate! Thanks!
Sigmagirl2000:
Thanks for explaining a bit, I admit I don't know much about the RFM! Just that many of my sisters (myself included) have been frustrated with not being able to release PNM's that are negative and clearly don't want to be a sister because they're "destined to be an XYZ".
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