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Originally Posted by Momoftwogirls
My daughter is a drama major at her high school. She said the way she looks at it is like auditions. You go in prepared and be yourself. If they don't think you are a fit then that's all it is. I did tell her the only way I would let her go through this is if she went into it knowing that everything happens for a reason. If it doesn't work out its because she was meant for a different path. Having said that, she has an excellent GPA, is bubbly, personable, friendly and cute. I would be shocked if she didn't match up to a house. But, you never know.
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You nailed it. Your daughter has had experience with not being selected ("rejected") and you have told her the truth: everything does happen for a reason, and there may well be a different path. I predict she'll have a fine recruitment, because she has an open mind and heart and a great attitude!
IMO so much heartache/heartbreak comes from unrealistic expectations. PNMS do not accept that they are not always going to get what it is that they think they want or deserve. Reality bites. Hard.