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Old 08-01-2014, 08:14 AM
FSUZeta FSUZeta is offline
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Step back. No matter how hard you try, you can not make someone want to get the full benefit of sorority membership. Badgering her to attend events, to take a little, no matter how often and how insistent you are will not change her, and could possibly ruin your relationship with her.

You have done your duty-you have guided her, let her know about events, invited her to do things with you-you have done all you could do. She is an adult-she makes her own decisions and she has to live with the decisions she makes, and you need to accept that.
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