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Old 05-05-2014, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by pattyPNM123 View Post
I live in an affluent area and all of my friends are white. That's how it's always been. All the girls in my class going to Alabama are all rushing NPC sororities, many of which are my friends. We all live in the same kind of neighborhoods, our parents work side by side in the same jobs and we've all gone to the same schools, been on the same cheerleading team and have really been together all our lives.
Good luck and I sincerely hope you do well.

This part that I quoted are things that differentiate some racial and ethnic minorities from other racial and ethnic minorities. These things can potentially buffer some of the effects of race. If people can believe "you're just like me" then they are more likely to relate to you and accept you. I trust you won't be chosen as the token "Black member/friend who isn't TOO Black."
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