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			Are you making friends with them because you enjoy their company or are you only making friends with them hoping you can talk them into pledging?
 If you're doing it right, THEY should tell YOU they want to pledge.  If they honestly say things like "I can be your friend without paying," then honestly, they do not get it, and you really don't want them as brothers.
 
				__________________It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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