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Originally Posted by ColdInCanada11
This is only controversial to a small subset of people. There are several GCers who work with their respective IHQ, and definitely know what they are talking about. I'm sorry that you aren't able to be sisters with your daughter, that is a truly unique situation. However, most people do not get to experience that. You continue to say, she had a great experience in recruitment and loves her house. Well, all you've done is massively complain. What you are presenting does not relay those feelings of happiness.
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SHE is happy enough.
Wait, also, isn't this almost entire
23 page thread about this and other mom/daughter controversial subjects?
Also, about the complaining...I'm no feminist, but to say that a sorority woman shouldn't complain because it is unseemly just smacks of control. I am only complaining to help make this situation better in the future. After all, for me it is too late. Since this happened to us, you wouldn't believe the number of sisters that I have told me that they were never volunteering or donating again because of this situation. What other system asks for loyalty and work with no reward? I think that the sororities are going to be sorry for this policy in the long run. Yes, sororities are popular right now, but you know what they say, "easy come, easy go". We are (by virtue of this very topic) training these girls to think that sorority life is just a "for college thing" with no payoff for alumna loyalty. I believe that we will definitely find our $ and volunteer base dried up then. And then, we will find ourselves in a situation like the 1970s.... Wash, Rinse, Repeat.