Do you think they can secretly have your name somewhere that says "don't let in" or something when you apply again? I assume that they still have your application & info on file. Do you even think it is a good idea for her to even try again with that org? After al she went through, do you think it's really worth possibly going through it again. She really wants to be a part of the sorority with all her heart but I keep telling her, at what cost