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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
I'm a fan of thinking about this early, because you don't want to invest time and energy in a relationship only to find out that he will never be serious about you for a reason you can't change.
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That seemed to be the feeling if the people on The Diane Rehm Show episode that Dr. Phil linked to, both for the reason you said and because once you're invested in the relationship, it's easy to think "Oh, we can work this out" or "it'll take care of itself," only to find out later that it's usually not that simple.