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Originally Posted by ADPiEE
I think the big/little thing has become really overrated lately and I'm not sure why? I see it hyped up over social media. )
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This.
Also what 33girl said. It is being made to carry more weight than it should and it's being sold as the ideal BFF/girlfriend/sisters4EVR experience.
The more you angst over it, the more likely it will be awkward. Reach out to her, but reach out to others as well. If she doesn't respond, it is on her. Someone else may end up being a mentoring older sister. If you really feel that she is dropping the ball, talk to your new member educator. The big may have things going on in her life that you know nothing about. Maybe she was forced to take a little. Maybe she is swamped academically. Maybe she is just an awkward bitch and you are better off without her influence. Just remember, it doesn't reflect on you or your worth as a sister or person.